Unchained Melody

Hmm..It's already 1st December..and it's almost 1 month goes by without any changes..Some part of me wants me to forget, but some part of me said..just wait..he will come back...but the problem is, will he? i really don't know the answer..And this is how suddenly this song come to my mind and remind me of all of the memories that we had even though it is just for a short time..So I decided to share this song in here. I know this song is very old, but I really like everything about this song..The melody, the lyrics are really nice..Hope whoever read this post will enjoy it...Have a nice day and enjoy the December..=)

Do you hear me when I call your name???

Here is a song that leave a very strong feeling to me whenever I am listening to this song..Like this this song's lyric, I really wish that he can hear me calling his name whenever I'm thinking of me...I really miss him, and i wish I could see him soon...

You never said you never said you never said

That it would be this hard

Your love was meant to be forever

Now it never seems to discard

There’s gotta be a better way

For me to say what’s on my heart

Without leaving scars

So can you hear me

When I call your name

And when you fall apart

Am I the reason for your endless sorrow

There’s so much to be said

With a broken heart

Your world can only go down

But so low

Can you hear me when I call your name

When I call your name

Complicated situations are the makings of all that’s wrong

And I’ve been standing in the river of deliverance way too long

There’s gotta be a better way

For me to say what’s on my heart

Without leaving scars

So can you hear me

When I call your name

So can you hear me

When I call your name

And when you fall apart

Am I the reason for your endless sorrow

There’s so much to be said

With a broken heart

Your world can only go down

But so low

Can you hear me when I call your name

When I call your name

You never said

You never said

You never said

You never said

(When I call your name)

You never said

You never said

You never said

You never said

(When I call your name)

Yesterday Today Tomorrow...

Have you ever wonder what kind of person will you be in the next 5 or 10 years? For me, yes...I always wondering what will I be in the next 5 years, or even the next year after this year...Well, people always change right?Hmm..I always think how my life look like, how my appearance will be, what kind of job I'll be doing, what kind of house,cars,etc will I have...Actually, all of these does not really matter. What matter is that how you live your life today..What you do today will reflect what will you have in the future..Each small step that you take today, will change your future..Use whatever you have yesterday to make up your day today and also your future..Yesterday was a teacher for today and today will determine what you will be tomorrow...

Pennies-A Simple Message

You always hear the usual stories of
pennies on the sidewalk being good luck, gifts from angels, etc. This is
the first time I've ever heard this twist on the story. Gives you
something to think about.

Several years ago, a women and
her husband were invited to spend the weekend at the husband's employer's
home. That woman, who name was Arlene, was nervous about the weekend.. The boss was
very wealthy, with a fine home on the waterway, and cars costing more than her
house.

The first day and evening went well, and
Arlene was delighted to have this rare glimpse into how the very wealthy
live. The husband's employer was quite generous as a host, and took them
to the finest restaurants. Arlene knew she would never have the
opportunity to indulge in this kind of extravagance again, so was
enjoying herself immensely.

As the three of them were about to enter
an exclusive restaurant that evening, the boss was walking slightly ahead
of Arlene and her husband.

He stopped suddenly, looking down on the
pavement for a long, silent moment.

Arlene wondered if she was supposed to
pass him. There was nothing on the ground except a single darkened penny
that someone had dropped, and a few cigarette butts

Still silent, the man reached down and
picked up the penny.

He held it up and smiled, then put it in
his pocket as if he had found a great treasure. How absurd! What need did
this man have for a single penny? Why would he even take the time to stop
and pick it up?

Throughout dinner, the entire scene nagged at her. Finally, she could stand it no longer. She casually mentioned that her daughter once had a coin collection, and asked if the penny he had found had been of some value.

A smile crept across the man's face as he reached into his pocket for the penny and held it out for her to see. She had seen many pennies before! What was the point of this?
'Look at it.' He said. 'Read what it says.' She read the words ' United States of America '

'No, not that; read further.'

'One cent?' 

'No, keep reading.'
'In God we Trust?' 'Yes!'

'And?'

'And if I trust in God, the name of God is holy, even on a coin.. Whenever I find a coin I see that inscription. It  is written on every single United States coin, but we never seem to notice it! God drops a message right in front of me telling me to trust Him? Who am I to pass it by? When I see a coin, I pray, I stop to see if my trust IS in God at that moment. I pick the coin up as a response to God; that I do trust in Him..

For a short time, at least, I cherish it  as if it were gold. I think it is God's way of starting a conversation
with me. Lucky for me , God is patient and pennies are plentiful!

When I was out shopping today, I found a penny on the sidewalk. I stopped and picked it up, and realized that I had been worrying and fretting in my mind about things I cannot change.

I read the words, 'In God We Trust,' and  had to laugh. Yes, God, I get the message.

It seems that I have been finding an  inordinate number of pennies in the last few months, but then, pennies  are plentiful!

And, God is patient..

The best mathematical equation I have ever seen:
1 cross + 3 nails = 4 given

That's the whole gospel message simply stated.

Take 60 seconds give this a shot! Let's just see if Satan stops this one.

All you do is -

1. Simply say a small prayer for the person who makes you read this, (Father God bless this person in whatever it is that you know he or she may be needing this day.)
2. Then send it on to five other people,in whatever way you like. 

Within hours five people have prayed for you, and you caused a multitude
of people to pray to God for other people ....


Thought for the Day: 

If God had a refrigerator, your picture  would be on it.  
 
If He had a wallet, your photo would be in it. 

He sends you flowers every spring. 

He sends you a sunrise every morning Face it, friend - He is crazy about you! 

 

 

God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way. 

Read this line very slowly and let it sink in... 

If God brings you to it, He will bring  you through it. 

Finally..

Finally...I can feel relieve..

relieve about everything..

everything that have made me feel worry lately..

until my sleep were also disturbed..well, problems might be one of the contributing factor for my sleeping problem..

Now i have my matric card, and I'm no longer become a "PTI" in UPM. If i ever meet the bus driver which have scolded me before, i will definitely show my matric card right to his face. Hahaha..If only i dare to do that..

And about my industrial training, the letter of acceptance from the have been a problem for me. But now no more. The personnel admin said that the company will only send the letter after the first day I "lapor diri" for my training. 

Well,there's maybe more problems to come in the future, but I hope have the wisdom and strength to deal with it or to solve it..;-)

 

Who am I actually?

Who am I? This question often comes to me and knocking on my mind.. After this 20 years of living, sincerely I say I don't even know my own self until now.. The number of my age keep increasing, but the only one thing I know is that I have becoming more not recognizing myself. What I want in life, what am i suppose to be, etc..I have no idea at all..It's really irritating me..Well, the age for finding my own identity should has passed. But yet, I'm still in my effort to find my own identity,my own personality. Huh..I really don't know what to do..Hope someday, don't care whether it's sooner or later, I can successfully create my own style of living this life, my own self and my own personality. I'm tired of being a person that I shouldn't or don't want to be in the first place..

Correct timing to take water‏

Correct timing to take water, will maximize its effectiveness to Human body.

 Two (02) glasses of water - After waking up -  Helps activate internal organs

 One (01) glass of water  - 30 minutes before meal - Help digestion

 One (01) glass of water - Before taking a bath - Helps lower blood pressure

 One (01) glass of water - Before sleep  - To avoid stroke or heart attack

DEADLY SINS OF NEGATIVE THINKING

1. I will be happy once I have _____ (or once I earn X).

Problem: If you think you can't be happy until you reach a certain point, or until you reach a certain income, or have a certain type of house or car or computer setup, you'll never be happy. That elusive goal is always just out of reach. Once we reach those goals, we are not satisfied — we want more.

Solution: Learn to be happy with what you have, where you are, and who you are, right at this moment. Happiness doesn't have to be some state that we want to get to eventually — it can be found right now. Learn to count your blessings, and see the positive in your situation. This might sound simplistic, but it works.

2. I wish I were as ____ as (a celebrity, friend, co-worker).

Problem: We'll never be as pretty, as talented, as rich, as sculpted, as cool, as everyone else. There will always be someone better, if you look hard enough. Therefore, if we compare ourselves to others like this, we will always pale, and will always fail, and will always feel bad about ourselves. This is no way to be happy.

Solution: Stop comparing yourself to others, and look instead at yourself — what are your strengths, your accomplishments, your successes, however small? What do you love about yourself? Learn to love who you are, right now, not who you want to become. There is good in each of us, love in each of us, and a wonderful human spirit in every one of us.

3. Seeing others becoming successful makes me jealous and resentful.

Problem: First, this assumes that only a small number of people can be successful. In truth, many, many people can be successful — in different ways.

Solution: Learn to admire the success of others, and learn from it, and be happy for them, by empathizing with them and understanding what it must be like to be them. And then turn away from them, and look at yourself — you can be successful too, in whatever you choose to do. And even more, you already are successful. Look not at those above you in the social ladder, but those below you — there are always millions of people worse off than you, people who couldn't even read this article or afford a computer. In that light, you are a huge success.

4. I am a miserable failure — I can't seem to do anything right.

Problem: Everyone is a failure, if you look at it in certain ways. Everyone has failed, many times, at different things. I have certainly failed so many times I cannot count them — and I continue to fail, daily. However, looking at your failures as failures only makes you feel bad about yourself. By thinking in this way, we will have a negative self-image and never move on from here.

Solution: See your successes and ignore your failures. Look back on your life, in the last month, or year, or 5 years. And try to remember your successes. If you have trouble with this, start documenting them — keep a success journal, either in a notebook or online. Document your success each day, or each week. When you look back at what you've accomplished, over a year, you will be amazed. It's an incredibly positive feeling.

5. I'm going to beat so-and-so no matter what — I'm better than him. And there's no way I'll help him succeed — he might beat me.

Problem: Competitiveness assumes that there is a small amount of gold to be had, and I need to get it before he does. It makes us into greedy, back-stabbing, hurtful people. We try to claw our way over people to get to success, because of our competitive feelings. For example, if a blogger wants to have more subscribers than another blogger, he may never link to or mention that other blogger. However, who is to say that my subscribers can't also be yours? People can read and subscribe to more than one blog.

Solution: Learn to see success as something that can be shared, and learn that if we help each other out, we can each have a better chance to be successful. Two people working towards a common goal are better than two people trying to beat each other up to get to that goal. There is more than enough success to go around. Learn to think in terms of abundance rather than scarcity.

6. Dammit! Why do these bad things always happen to me?

Problem: Bad things happen to everybody. If we dwell on them, they will frustrate us and bring us down.

Solution: See bad things as a part of the ebb and flow of life. Suffering is a part of the human condition — but it passes. All pain goes away, eventually. Meanwhile, don't let it hold you back. Don't dwell on bad things, but look forward towards something good in your future. And learn to take the bad things in stride, and learn from them. Bad things are actually opportunities to grow and learn and get stronger, in disguise.

7. You can't do anything right! Why can't you be like ____ ?

Problem: This can be said to your child or your subordinate or your sibling. The problem? Comparing two people, first of all, is always a fallacy. People are different, with different ways of doing things, different strengths and weaknesses, different human characteristics. If we were all the same, we'd be robots. Second, saying negative things like this to another person never helps the situation. It might make you feel better, and more powerful, but in truth, it hurts your relationship, it will actually make you feel negative, and it will certainly make the other person feel negative and more likely to continue negative behavior. Everyone loses.

Solution: Take the mistakes or bad behavior of others as an opportunity to teach. Show them how to do something. Second, praise them for their positive behavior, and encourage their success. Last, and most important, love them for who they are, and celebrate their differences.

8. Your work sucks. It's super lame. You are a moron and I hope you never reproduce.

Problem: I've actually gotten this comment before. It feels wonderful. However, let's look at it not from the perspective of the person receiving this kind of comment but from the perspective of the person giving it. How does saying something negative like this help you? I guess it might feel good to vent if you feel like your time has been wasted. But really, how much of your time has been wasted? A few minutes? And whose fault is that? The bloggers or yours? In truth, making negative comments just keeps you in a negative mindset. It's also not a good way to make friends.

Solution: Learn to offer constructive solutions, first of all. Instead of telling someone their blog sucks, or that a post is lame, offer some specific suggestions for improvement. Help them get better. If you are going to take the time to make a comment, make it worth your time. Second, learn to interact with people in a more positive way — it makes others feel good and it makes you feel better about yourself. And you can make some great friends this way. That's a good thing.

9. Insulting People Back

Problem: If someone insults you or angers you in some way, insulting them back and continuing your anger only transfers their problem to you. This person was probably having a bad day (or a bad year) and took it out on you for some reason. If you reciprocate, you are now having a bad day too. His problem has become yours. Not only that, but the cycle of insults can get worse and worse until it results in violence or other negative consequences — for both of you.

Solution: Let the insults or negative comments of others slide off you like Teflon. Don't let their problem become yours. In fact, try to understand their problem more — why would someone say something like that? What problems are they going through? Having a little empathy for someone not only makes you understand that their comment is not about you, but it can make you feel and act in a positive manner towards them — and make you feel better about yourself in the process.

10. I don't think I can do this — I don't have enough discipline. Maybe some other time.

Problem: If you don't think you can do something, you probably won't. Especially for the big stuff. Discipline has nothing to do with it — motivation and focus has everything to do with it. And if you put stuff off for "some other time", you'll never get it done. Negative thinking like this inhibits us from accomplishing anything.

Solution: Turn your thinking around: you can do this! You don't need discipline. Find ways to make yourself a success at your goal. If you fail, learn from your mistakes, and try again. Instead of putting a goal off for later, start now. And focus on one goal at a time, putting all of your energy into it, and getting as much help from others as you can. You can really move mountains if you start with positive thinking.