Why Women Cry?

Why Women Cry
Watch her eyes

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman , " she told him.

"I don't understand , " he said. His Mom just hugged him and said , "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father , "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason , " was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man , still wondering why women cry...

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone , he asked , "God , why do women cry so easily?"

God said

"When I made the
woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up , and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances , even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife , but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally , I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my
son , " said God , "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears , the figure that she carries , or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes , because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

Change Your Thinking

It will take just 37 seconds to read this and change your thinking.

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.

One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs.
His bed was next to the room's only window.

The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.

The men talked for hours on end.

They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation..

Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.

Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by.

Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.

Days, weeks and months passed.

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep.

She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away..

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.
He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed.

It faced a blank wall.

The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.

The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.

She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.'

Epilogue:

There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.

Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.

If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.

'Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present.'

I pray you will forward it to all your friends to whom you wish God's blessings.

When We Share

When we share laughter,
There's twice the fun;
When we share success,
We've surpassed what we've done.



When we share problems,
There's half the pain;
When we share tears,
A rainbow follows rain.



When we share dreams,
They become more real;
When we share secrets,
It's our hearts we reveal.



If we share a smile,
That's when our love shows;
If we share a hug,
That's when our love grows.



If we share with someone
On whom we depend,
That person is always
Family or friend.



And what draws us closer
And makes us all care,
Is not what we have,
But the things we share



Let's share the Happy Moments of Life

Letting go of the past-which i really wanted to do...

Letting go of the past - a simple method
It can be very easy to say "let it go", "let it slide", "forget about it" and so forth. It's possible to say those words and similar till you are blue in the face; but all those hurtful things are still there pulling faces at you, laughing at you, making you feel so low, dragging you down and keeping you from the power to reach for success.

You know for a fact that you can have a fast, powerful sports car, but, load it up with lots of unnecessary junk and it's going to have only one speed - dead slow - no matter how hard you press that accelerator and wish it forward. This applies to your life. Load your mind up with all sorts of junk from the past and you've got it - no power - no matter how hard you try or wish.

All that hurtful, humiliating, painful, debilitating, embarrassing "stuff" from the past eating away at your character, confidence and personal power like battery acid. What can you do? How can you begin to move forward?

Forgiveness. You MUST forgive the past. Forgive the people who may have wronged you in some way. Forgive all the incidents. Forgive yourself. Forgive even your God. For it is only through true and heartfelt forgiveness of the past and all those involved that you can genuinely begin to "let it go", "let it slide", truly "forget about it" and move forward again. Everybody makes mistakes. We are all only human, and our greatest teachers are our mistakes. All those people from the past who you believe wronged you - well - they, just like you, are only human too. You need to recognise that and be prepared to forgive just as you would like to be forgiven for your past mistakes.

Action plan. Make a list. A list of all the people, incidents, wrongs, mistakes made, hurts, jealousies that are encumbering your life, that are robbing you of your power. Write everything down. Don't miss a thing. Not a single crumb. This is going to be one nasty document. Add descriptions if you wish - just get it ALL out on paper.

The old you would have framed this document on the wall so you could read over it every day and gloat about all your excuses for "not making it".

The new you is going to handle the situation totally differently. You are going to set aside a day - a whole day - to be alone. You need to find a lonely spot a long way from everyone. Perhaps a trip to the country will do it. Pack a picnic lunch. Look on this as a celebration. A celebration of forgiveness.

You will arrive safely at the designated spot. You spread out your picnic. An excellent spot is somewhere high like a mountain top. You take out your list. In a very loud voice you call out "I forgive my wife for not loving me as she should.", "I forgive my aunt Joan for embarrassing me so much at that family party in 1987", "I forgive with all my heart and soul the driver of that car that smashed into ours injuring my son so badly - I forgive you." Obviously these are only examples - yours will be yours. If you feel you need to read it over many times until you feel "done".

Now destroy the list completely. Bury or scatter to the wind any remains. Make sure it is gone forever. Celebrate your forgiveness event with your picnic and go home. It is done. You are free. Forgive always. We are all one. As you have just forgiven others, so too have you been forgiven.

3 fantastic quotes:

"Inner peace can be reached only when we practice forgiveness. Forgiveness is letting go of the past" - Gerald Jampolsky

"The practice of forgiveness is our most important contribution to the healing of the world" - Marianne Williamson

"Forgiveness is the giving, and so the receiving, of life" - George MacDonald

An Inspiring and Unique Friendship


A farmer had some puppies he needed to sell. He painted a sign advertising the 4 pups and set about nailing it to a post on the edge of his yard. As he was driving the last nail into the post, he felt a tug on his overalls. He looked down into the eyes of little boy?

”Mister,” he said, “I want to buy one of your puppies.”


”Well,” said the farmer, as he rubbed the sweat off the back of his neck, “These puppies come from fine parents and cost a good deal of money.”

The boy dropped his head for a moment. Then reaching deep into his pocket, he pulled out a handful of change and held it up to the farmer.

”I've got thirty-nine cents. Is that enough to take a look?”



”Sure,” said the farmer.

And with that he let out a whistle.

“Here, Dolly!” he called.

Out from the doghouse and down the ramp ran Dolly followed by four little balls of fur.



The little boy pressed his face against the chain link fence. His eyes danced with delight. As the dogs made their way to the fence,



the little boy noticed something else stirring inside the doghouse.

Slowly another little ball appeared, this one noticeably smaller. Down the ramp it slid. Then in a somewhat awkward manner, the little pup began hobbling toward the others, doing its best to catch up...

”I want that one,” the little boy said, pointing to the runt. The farmer knelt down at the boy's side and said, “Son, you don't want that puppy. He will never be able to run and play with you like these other dogs would.”

With that the little boy stepped back from the fence, reached down, and began rolling up one leg of his trousers.

In doing so he revealed a steel brace running down both sides of his leg attaching itself to a specially made shoe.

Looking back up at the farmer, he said, “You see sir, I don't run too well myself, and he will need someone who understands.”

With tears in his eyes, the farmer reached down and picked up the little pup.



Holding it carefully he handed it to the little boy.



“How much?” asked the little boy. “No charge,” answered the farmer, “There's no charge for love.”

The world is full of people who need someone who understands.

What a sad and touching story about friendship..it's really hard to find a friend who can really understand you,but no need to worry about that.Actually,love starts from a frienship..Whoever show love to you,make sure you repay them by giving them love too..Love is the most powerful feeling which also makes the world go around.Without love,there's no peace and wars could be anywhere.So,have a time to love each other without care for the race,religions,skin colours,etc..

Imbasan 2009

Well..Hanya tinggal 13 hari sahaja lagi sebelum kita melangkah ke tahun yg baru,2010..Begitu pantas sekali masa berlalu serta meninggalkan seribu satu macam kenangan untuk kita abadikan..

Tahun 2009..bila dikenang kembali,sememangnya terlalu banyak yang telah saya lalui..segala yang samada menggembirakan,menyedihkan,menyakitkan hati dan sebagainya telah saya lalui..betul la kata pepatah,hidup ini bagaikan roda yang sentiasa berputar.adakala kita di atas,adakalanya kita kena berada di bawah.Begitu la apa yang telah saya lalui sepanjang 2009.Ada masa saya gembira dan tertawa,ada juga masanya untuk saya bersedih dan menangis..Namun semuanya yang berlaku,tak pernah sekali pun saya menyesalinya..tapi semuanya telah mengajar saya tentang erti kesabaran,kesempurnaan,ketekunan dalam melakukan sesuatu..Masalah-masalah yang timbul sepanjang tahun 2009 pun tidak kurang banyak,tapi saya tahu semua masalah-masalah yang timbul itu adalah berpunca dari saya sendiri.Entahlah,saya sendiri pun tak faham,kenapa la saya nie suka sangat mencari masalah.Tetapi,saya bersyukur semua masalah dapat disettlekan dengan penyelesaian yang sesuai..hehe^_^

Yang penting sekali,tahun 2009 banyak mengajar saya tentang persahabatan.saya amat bersyukur kerana mempunyai kawan-kawan yang baik di sekeliling saya..saya tak tahu la macam mana mereka beranggapan tentang saya.apa yang saya tahu..saya SAYANG semua kawan-kawan saya..especially Stella,Ain,Yeo,Ronald,sis Sylvia,sis Alis,Ker Shin..Tanpa mereka nie,memang sunyi la hidup saya di UPM..mereka yang telah banyak memberi dorongan kepada saya..bila mana saya memerlukan nasihat mereka,mereka sentiasa ada..Love you all..:-)

Tahun 2010..menjanjikan seribu satu macam misteri untuk saya selongkari..sepastinya lebih banyak perkara-perkara yang akan berlaku dan saya akan mendapat pengalaman-pngalaman yang baru dan juga tak ternilai harganya..saya ingin menyambut kedatang tahun 2010 dengan tangan dan hati yang terbuka..biarlah semuanya akan berjalan dengan lancar..:-)

Masa untuk pulang..

Nak lama-lama tak boleh..kelas TKD sedang menanti keesokan harinya..nak tak nak terpaksa juga saya dan kawan saya meningglkan pulau yang nan indah ini..pengembaraan yang sebenar baru nak bermula sebenarnya..waa..pertama kali saya menaiki feri yang berlainan dari yang ada di sarawak..kalau di sarawak feri dia lain,lagipula feri di sarawak dipanggil express,bukan dipanggil feri..

Dah sampai di kuala kedah, kami terus menyewa teksi ke perhentian bas..sampai-sampai saja di perhentian bas, dah jam 9 malam..dah settle beli tiket terus naik bas balik KL..sayang sekali tak dapat nak menjenguk ke luar tingkap kerana keadaan malam yang gelap gelita..tiba di Puduraya dalam jam 4 pagi..nak balik upm jam macam nie,pagar bukannya buka pun..jadi saya dan kawan saya melepak la di kedai mamak..bersahur dengan orang melayu..kan first day puasa pulak masa tu..nasib baik juga ada kedai mamak tu,kalau tak,tak tau la kami nak berehat di mana..dah puas melepak kat kedai mamak,melepak pulak di cyber cafe..dapat online facebook..hehe..sempat juga kan..

Jam 6 baru la kami naik LRT pergi ke Bandar tasik selatan.dah tiba di BTS kena lagi tunggu komuter untuk pergi ke serdang..tina di upm dalam jam 7..kelas TKD start jam 830 pagi..huhu..kerana terover letih,saya tertidur pulak sehingga jam jam 830 baru bangun..then,baru la saya dan kawan saya pergi ke kelas TKD..master Wong tak juga ambil hati sangat atas kelewatan kami kerana kami telah memaklumkan pada dia dalam kelas yang lepas.lebih baik lambat daripada tak hadir langsung.lagipula dia tahu kami pasti letih..dan saya dapat rasakan latihan TKD hari itu sangat ringan dan tak memerlukan tenaga yang banyak sangat..selepas kelas kena pulak menceritakan pengalaman kami ke langkawi untuk dikongsikan kepada semua..tapi saya sangat gembira..walaupun sangat keletihan..

Pulau Lagenda_Langkawi

tak pernah-pernah terlintas di fikiran saya akan meninjakkan kai ke Pulau Langkawi. Tapi kena percaya juga..SEBAB..saya telah berada di sana pun..haha...rasa macam bermimpi pulak ya..satu pengalaman yang sangat berharga buat saya yang saya tak mungkin dapat lupakan..walaupun cuma berada di sana 1 malam, ataupun lebih tepat lagi-tak sampai 24 jam berada di pulau itu, sangat banyak pengalaman yang telah terkumpul. Gambar-gambar untuk dijadikan kenangan masa hadapan juga ada dirakam..

Pulau Langkawi-salah satu ciptaan Tuhan yang cukup indah yang wajar kita hargai..walaupun banyak lagi tempat-tempat yang saya tak sempat nak terokai, yang mana saya percaya lebih indah daripada yang sempat kunjungi, saya tetap bersyukur..berada di dalam underwater world-melihat peguin-binatang yang sangat comel..hehe..mana taknya saya rasa dia comel..sebab peguin memang comel pun..dan banyak lagi haiwan-haiwan yang belum pernah saya ketahui dapat saya lihat di sini..berjalan kaki di kaki lima dengan kawan-kawan..walaupun disimbah dengan cahaya matahari yang terik, namun keseronokan tetap dapat dirasai..

Perubahan cuaca yang mendadak, dari panas terik bertukar kepada hujan sedikit sebanyak mengganggu perjalanan kami..namun semua itu bukanlah penghalang bagi kami untuk menerokai pulau tersebut..selepas cuaca sedikit reda, kami menaiki kereta kabel..AMAT la menakutkan..tetapi apabila dijamu dengan keindahan Pulau Langkawi, ketakutan serta0merta berubah menjadi perasaan teruja..agak tinggi juga, kalau tak mempunyai semangat yang kuat,jangan harap la boleh sampai ke puncak..bayu yang meniup di puncak amat mendamaikan..kalau bukan kerana kekangan masa,mahu saja saya terus berada di situ lama-lama menikmati bayu yang amat menyenangkan itu..